What Hinder Marital Bliss

What Hinder Marital Bliss

What Hinder Marital Bliss

What hinder marital bliss? Marriages like vineyards cannot look after themselves; they require constant care, attention and commitment to stop little foxes from coming in and getting them out quickly when they come in. It is indeed true that as you lay your bed so you will lie on it. Failure to put a solid foundation in place will jeopardize the building called marriage. The kind of marriage you choose is the kind of marriage you will get.

Your attitude to marriage will affect the kind of marriage you will get. When you seriously and painstakingly erect a solid foundation for your future in the area of marriage, you will reap huge dividends in the years ahead. Therefore, you need to take cognizant of the fact that the effort you put into preparations for your marriage will eventually pay off. On the other hand, carelessness or negligence will also yield their fruits accordingly

 

What hinder marital bliss are result of issues that that may brings about conflict. Issues/causes of conflict in marriage are the things the Bible describes as little foxes.

 

Little foxes are what hinders marital bliss.

 What are foxes? They are little animals. Biologically we know them to be carnivorous animals (they are of the cat family), and as such should not be eating grapes. But our background text shows that have ability to destroy great vineyards. When foxes enter a vineyard they don’t beautify it, they don’t just play around and leave things just the way they were.  No, they damage and destroy the vineyard.

 

Our marriages are like vineyards and there foxes that creep in subtlety/unnoticed with one single purpose – i.e. to scatter and destroy our marriages relationships. Foxes represent obstacles to blissful a marital relationship. Anything/problem that can disturb or destroy a loving relationship is a fox. It does not matter why foxes destroy vineyards.  The important thing is that it is so often the little things that damage loving relationships.

 

Noticing the little forces that hinder marital bliss

Once there are foxes in the vineyard, a vigilant and committed Gardener soon notices their presence as he sees stems wildering, fruits and flowers falling prematurely, etc.  Similarly, if a couple is sensitive, observant and committed to their marriage, they will always notice evidences of impending marital problems as soon as they arise.

 

The used of the phrase “catch for us” in the verse shows that the couple are jointly committed to tackling their marital problems. They wanted anything that could cause problem between them removed. They realised that it is often little things that cause the biggest damages in marital relationships.

Marriages like vineyards cannot look after themselves; they require constant care, attention and commitment to stop little foxes from coming in and getting them out quickly when they come in.

“Little foxes” must not be underrated; they must not be ignored but identified and dealt with immediately.

The plural “little foxes” indicate that little problems that can destroy our marriages are many. These include issues of communication, finance, sex, children, job/career, in-laws, etc.

 

The watch word to avoid that which hinder marital bliss

The watchword is; watch! Be alert and avoid carless mistakes. Those who neglected the hunter’s whistle have been devoured by the wolves that beseech the field of marriage. Good preparation, keen watchfulness and giving meticulous attention to divine instructions will save you from becoming one of the prey. Prey of the terrible powers that have destroyed several homes today. No matter how tough a situation is, you will survive the topsy-turvy conditions of marriage. The moment you combine your personal efforts with divine resources, which are already made available to you, you will discover that your marriage will become a source of pleasure and joy rather than a source of pain and regret

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